As November begins, there’s a noticeable change in the air. The streets start to shimmer with twinkling lights, chocolate shops fill their windows with festive treats, and Heart radio starts playing all the classics. The signs are undeniable – Christmas is just around the corner.
For many, it’s the most wonderful time of the year. It’s a season of joy, filled with Christmas parties, family gatherings, laughter, and a chance to celebrate the birth of Christ. It’s a time to relive those cherished childhood memories of excitement, magic, and wonder.
But for others, this season also brings a sense of sadness and longing.
For us, the Schoeman family, this is still a tender and challenging time. This will be our third Christmas without our beloved Sia. The hole left by her absence feels especially deep during this season. Christmas was always filled with so much joy, and now it’s bittersweet—a mix of gratitude for the memories we hold and sorrow for the ones we can no longer make.
We know we’re not alone in this. For some, the holidays amplify the ache of missing a loved one. For others, it’s the sting of loneliness or the weight of financial and mental struggles. The very season that promises light and joy can feel overwhelming when your heart is heavy.
Yet, in the midst of this, Christmas remains a time of hope. The birth of Christ reminds us of God’s love – a love so deep it entered our broken world to bring light into our darkness. For those of us grieving, lonely, or struggling, this love can be a source of comfort. It’s not about having a perfect Christmas; it’s about finding moments of peace, joy, and connection amidst the imperfections.
So, as the season begins, let’s hold space for both the excitement and the sorrow. Let’s celebrate with those who are rejoicing and extend kindness to those who may be quietly hurting. Whether it’s sharing a meal, checking in with someone who might feel alone, or simply offering a smile to a stranger, let’s remember the heart of Christmas – love, compassion, and hope for all.
To those celebrating with full hearts, treasure every moment. And to those grieving, struggling, or simply holding on, know that you are seen, loved, and never truly alone.
Wishing you peace this Christmas season,
The Schoeman Family